A Guide to The Most Popular Kinks

Curious to know what the most popular kinks are? You’ve come to the right place! Perhaps you’re a new Kreator looking to streamline your speciality, or maybe you’re a Kinkster who wants to know a little more about the wonderful sexual kinks out there.

As experts in all thing’s fetish, this week, the team at MyFet look at some of the most intriguing and popular fetishes and what they entail, so you can decide exactly what’s for you!




You’ve most likely heard of BDSM – which stands for bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism. First on our most popular kinks radar is the ‘M’ - masochism. This fetish centres around gaining pleasure from pain and includes a wide spectrum of kink options, for example, light hair pulling, biting, scratching and spanking, all the way to hot wax play and cock and ball torture.

Many people find the release of endorphins during pain both exciting and blissfully relaxing, pair this with sex and you have a niche fetish! 14% of the UK population have explored pain in the bedroom, with curiosity growing consistently. As a Kreator, there’s a lot you can cover with your content in this category.




Sploshing, sometimes referred to as the ‘wet & messy fetish’, refers to the act of incorporating wet and messy elements into sexual encounters or content for arousal. This includes using food items or exploring other substances like mud or oil. Although it differs from person to person, the allure here mostly stems from the appeal of different textures smeared, placed or dumped onto the skin or clothes. Many love the physical and tactile sensation of these solutions, adding an element of sensory excitement to intimate experiences.

For others, the appeal is more humiliation based, pairing it a dominating/masochistic approach. We know we’re taught to not play with our food, but here, you can most definitely indulge in the forbidden…


Impact Play


If you like the thought of spanking, paddling, flogging and caning, impact play could be for you! This fetish encompasses the controlled application of physical force during sexual encounters and is known to intensify sensations and stimulate arousal for those who engage in it. The idea is to strike safe erogenous zones that trigger an endorphin high. There are different variations to the hitting patterns and force behind impact. Some people love to be ‘marked’, whereas others don’t. It’s up to those involved to communicate as to what is pleasurable.


Foot Fetish


One of the most popular kinks is the foot fetish, or Podophilia as it is also known. Any part of the foot could be arousing for someone with a foot fetish. For some it’s the size, shape, or adornments like nail polish or jewellery which turn them on. For others, it’s more about footwear, tights or shoes on feet, rather than the foot itself.

Of course, we’re all different, so what might please one person who is into feet, may not appeal to the next! Foot fetish content is extremely sought after, so if you’re looking to break into the fetish content scene, it could be a really encouraging place to start.


Dominance and Submission


Here, the dominant partner takes control and directs the actions within a kink session, while the other partner(s) assumes a more submissive role, relinquishing freedom as such. It provides an opportunity for individuals to explore power dynamics and engage in consensual acts of dominance and submission.

The Domme/Sub fetish is vast and there are many sub-categories within this main kink bracket. This could include, but is not limited to, erotic roleplaying, bondage, discipline and sadomasochism, to name a few. Each role is defined differently and each scenario unique, completely depending on the participating individuals’ preferences.




Last on our list of most popular kinks is CBT, also known as cock and ball torture. This is where the male genitals are subjected to pain. This can range from mild constriction to crushing. Wax play, penis flogging and erotic electrostimulation can also fall under this kink. CBT via instruction (not in person) is also popular in a Domme/Sub relationship. At its core, CBT is about giving up control and receiving pleasure from targeted pain.

It’s certainly not for everyone and is more popular within the hardcore fetish community. If you’re a dominant or dominatrix looking to expand the services you offer to clientele, this could be a great niche to hone into.


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Whether you’re a Kreator or a Kinkster, we hope our most popular kinks guide has left you educated, informed and a little bit curious…

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By admin
Aug 03, 2023
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